“I love that you get cold when it’s 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle in your nose when you’re looking at me like I’m nuts. I love that after I spend day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it’s not because I’m lonely, and it’s not because it’s New Year’s Eve. I am here today because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”–Harry Burns (Billy Crystal), When Harry Met Sally(1989).
"Love who you love
With all that you have
And don't waste the time that flies so fast
Love who you love
And say that you do
Hold on as tight as they'll let you
Love who you love…"
How often do we just presume that the other person knows we love them, isn't that obvious?
We live in our own niche world refusing to bother others… why should I keep reminding that person, why do i be the nagging one? Isn't it BUT OBVIOUS?
The answer many a times is NO!
Well, as far as most people are concerned they need to be reminded that they are loved. Someone to be there to tell them that no matter what course life takes there will be a certain someone out there to look out for you, and that someone will be the ones who love you. :)
so next time don't presume. Just say it!
you never know when it maybe the last time you may watch them sleep,
you never know when it maybe the last time you watch them walk out the door,
you never know when it maybe the last time you tuck them good night,
you never know when it maybe the last time you just give a casual hug,
so give that extra little love each time, a tighter hug, a firmer shake, a happier nod, a friendlier bye and a little more time...!
I can be mean, I can be rude. I can be the most evil person you've known. I can be insensitive and not care about what effect the words I say have on you.
It’s all a part of me…
As they say there's a dark side of the moon…
I say things that hurt people... and after a while I realize and repent
But, the truth is… All the bad things I am, I let you know.
It’s just like saying "I love you" at the most random moment and taking you by surprise”.
It’s god damn easy to show how bad you are than to prove how good you've been.
It’s all a part of me…
As they say there's a dark side of the moon…
I say things that hurt people... and after a while I realize and repent
But, the truth is… All the bad things I am, I let you know.
It’s just like saying "I love you" at the most random moment and taking you by surprise”.
It’s god damn easy to show how bad you are than to prove how good you've been.
So this one comes up way too late but yes the day you made me feel loved I took a start and feel like I can go on!
For me darkness and gloom seemed to be a part of my life,
Yet somehow I managed to see a sunbeam through the clouds
When I quietly reflect in my mind, it is you whom I see
I cherish all our special moments, no matter how small !
Be it him helping me fold my clothes or covering me with a sheet.
The times when he would finish my food and then hug me saying I made him proud!
The pint of our relationship has always been over flowing with drama…
“You are too much into your new friends…”
“You don't care about my feelings…”
“You don't share anything anymore…”
These are the words I generally get to hear from him when he's angry…
But till date, a little sorry and a warm hug kills all the drama and he is willing to be by my side again, holding on to me every time I am not strong enough to keep myself upright…
Yeah I do have to face a lot of 'why's' and 'what's'
"I don't like that guy... I don't want you to talk to him"
"Why was your phone busy?"
"Why haven't you reached home yet?"
But that is how it is supposed to be, right?
Being protected, being cared, being loved…
It is amazing to know that you have some one to look after you, to lean on when you are tired, to cry on his shoulder when you are upset, to hold his hand when you are afraid…
It is so easy with him…
I don't have to look my best when I have to go out with him… I don't have to sound sober and decent while talking to him...
I can cry with pouring eyes and wipe my nose on his shirt…
He sucks at expressing how much he cares for me but does stupid little things which make my heart melt…
He makes life so much simpler... so much more easier… so much more lively…
It is not about how we forget, but how we forgive each other...
Not about how we listen, but how we understand each other…
Not about how we are, but how we feel for each other…
Not about how we let go, but how we hold on to each other...
He is not my boyfriend…
He is just HIM..
And I love him for that <3
“There are millions of people in this world, but in the end it all comes down to one. I still panic sometimes, forget to breathe, but I know that there's something beautiful in my imperfections; the beauty that he held up for me to see.”
From the movie, ‘Crazy Beautiful’
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